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1) Trust your friends.

2) Listen to your friends. As in, really listen. Do not dismiss their words as paranoia/result of an over-active imagination/over-reaction.

3) Do not keep things from your friends. Do not assume they know what you want (or don't want) them to know. Sometimes, its the words that you actually speak that matters. Actually, most of the time they're the only thing that matters.

I thought about stuff today, and I realised I'm really not pleased with the things that have been happening recently. I am not happy that my friend is hurt and angry, and I do not think that it is uncalled for. In fact, I think that she is very much entitled to feeling this way. I may be too far away to really know what exactly is going on, but I do believe in cause and effect, which means that if someone is upset, it really does mean that something is wrong.

Please people - I trust that we are really beyond squabbling over men? I know I'm not the best person to speak, because I've had tensions with some of you over a man before. But it is exactly because of this that I know it is bloody not worth it.

Skype session soon. Need to talk.