First, let me state, I am not siding anyone, I am sitting on a fench and smelling cow dung in Davis.

I think what Liting is driving at... is that fact that Pre-Jude, Yun actually does call us and say... "oie wanna go out not?" "Are you free?" and now, that has disappeared and the only time the other people in S'pore see her is... when they ask Yun to go out... see the diff?

The thing about this group of us is that we are very rash with our judgement, don't like change all that much and being an impatient bunch of girls who totally love and care about each other, it translates sometimes to alot of frustration and disappointment.

Time does matter in this scheme of things, not everything can be solved efficiently. People react and manage different scenarios, situations differently and perhaps what we have to do is to simply be on hand to support each other and just let events play out. I know that it is sometimes hard when you see so many loopholes, so many ditches that others can and most probably (in your mind) will fall into. and being friends, you just want to stretch out that hand of yours and pull them back before they actually trip n fall face in. however, perhaps a shouted warning may suffice. The ditch will be avoided, diaster averted, clothes are cleaned and friend simply goes on walking. Maybe what we need to acquire is a wait and see attitude.

Good luck for the exams... and this post is not complete...but i need to rush to catch the bus to Sacramento.

LOVE U Anne 1:54 AM 0 comments