Monday, November 07, 2005
Firstly, I thank WQ for her faith in me. =))) next, i wanna clarify that 'wait n see' attitude is not the equivelent to take a back seat. Just in case that was how it was viewed. I just mean to say what WQ said about free will...
thirdly, it was fence not french. my spelling a bit terok
fourthly, maybe i am getting the wrong vibes... but y is everyone getting so frightened that this issue will ruin our friendship? from how i see it, we have a strong foundation, going through a rough patch doesn't have anything to do with undermining the fundamentals of our relationships. OK... so we have issues... so what? talk about, stew on it, forget about it for a while to distance urself... what i am saying is sometime problems don't get solved immediately. Sometimes, rush isn't good. sometimes when u rush u get emotional and i am getting a lot of emotional vibes here.
Anyway Yun says she usually don't ask us out also mah. -wait-
- erm yes she does. she's not the only one does it of coz... i do that, liting does that , wq does that... I'm not saying this to say TAN YUN U ARE LYING! ok? no such intention or no intention to say smth agst her... come on man... yunyun n i how close? (prob not as close now lol... we have to remedy that right?? *wink)i am jsut saying that she did ask us out sometimes... mabbe you (yun) aren't that aware of that fact. anyway this is a small pt. coz i agree on qiuyi's pt that "I think for everyone who just started a relationship, you must give them time to spend with each other. There is already school, which I believe Yun has lots to do, plus new relationship which needs nurturing, confirm have less time with friends right?! One day only got 24 hours leh!"
Why must she explain herself and who cares whether she usually call us out or not? As she said, she did not REJECT going out with you just coz of Jude mah.
I believe u are the one saying this right Qiuyi? No one needs to explain herself. but if one did, misunderstanding wouldn't be happening right?
and yes qiuyi u sound Ah lian.