Monday, November 07, 2005
Please do not victimise Tan Yun. It's not that we are ALL against her. We are ALL feeling the same frustrations and disappointment. Tan Yun: Reason why we don't ask you to join our spontaneous outings, I think it's self-explanatory. They were spontaneous. Yes, it's indeed true that you have never say you are not going out with us because of him. But there were times (many) when I asked you out but you have something on. I can choose to give you the benefit of doubt but sometimes I really don't. Simply because, Jude was with you. Perhaps he is accompanying you to study. I don't know.
Once, I asked if you want to go home and change since you said you were not appropriately dressed for Zouk, your reply was, "You should know I can't go out after I go home." I was willing to accept. But the next day when Jude and the guys wanted to drink. You told them that you need to go home and change since you were in shorts. It was 11 p.m. then. I was disappointed but perhaps everyone has their exceptions.
When we go out, you would need to leave latest by 11 p.m. But when Jude asked you what time must you leave, you would say ANYTIME. Perhaps you happened to only go home late when I'm around with the guys as well. Or is it because your parents niao you for going out late too often so that's why you try to go home earlier when you are out with us?
With regards to you making the arrangement for meetings, I REALLY can't recall. And YES, trust is lacking. How can I trust you when Jude is always with you? I won't know if he is reading your messages. I feel that it's the couple's choice to allow each other to read their stuff. But I don't like it when I think we are having a problem because of him and he happens to read my SMSes about the problem or him. I don't dislike Jude. He is kind of my friend. But I do judge him as Tan Yun's boyfriend. Tan Yun, you yourself judge all our boyfriends, in terms of eligibility, looks or any of such sort. So I think this can clearly explain why we (most of us) are all judging him.
Sometimes I think it's not healthy to have only boyfriend as the only contact. Well, for Tan Yun, perhaps you have Jude's friends, your schoolmates or outside friends. I just hope everything is not,"Boyfriend says...." now. I never believe in having to spend all one's free time to nurture a new relationship or with boyfriend. There's more to this in Life!
Something out of point, the way Jude pats Tan Yun's head reminds me of how Jasper used to do that. It really does. You get what I mean?
The only thing I can say is that this is not going to affect our friendship because I TREASURED all of you so much. This relationship is not going to wreck my friendship!
AND ONE HAPPY ANNOUCEMENT! Waikeong won a Hyundai 1.6 Matrix from a lucky draw. :)