Monday, December 12, 2005
Me: Are friends supposed to have expectations of one another?Friend1: No, friends r not ur workers, not ur kids, not ur pets. Why shld u expect anything from them?
Me: But why wouldnt u expect anything from friends?
Friend1: Well... if u r free then go out with them lor, spend more time with them if they breakup with bf.. or if they break their arms.. that's all..
Me: Therez some friendship issues i faced..
Friend1: Just ignore. Dun care lah.. Friends come and go..
Me: Are friends supposed to have expectations of one another?
Friend2: Yah, sure will have basic expectations... trust.. commitment..
Me: Ok...
Friend2: But.. u cant expect friends to be always free when u r free... they will need time for their bfs... like on sat... they would hafta spend time with their the other half..
They ought to be condemned right? *haha* If they are friends of ours... i dunno wat u girls would do...
After reading Ting's entry, it was so much like how im feeling. I realised that i have high expectations of friends too. But not towards u girls. Why? Izzit cuz we know each other for too long that i have taken u girls for granted?
Failure to meet expectations will make one very disappointed but so what if u r disappointed? Unless the other party put in effort, there's nothing u can do except to feel "xin tong" abt it. I guess u just have to accept that others juz dun have such high expectations of friends, so they wouldnt give as much as u wish they would.